Habitacker, I had the same dilemma with religion and doing the right thing - i even went to a IC with Christian background. She said: you have to do what will NOT push your H into doing more wrong. If it means being patient, giving space, giving time, then do so. Ultimately, you both will reap the rewards.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
