"Should I email you on side or here... confused on your comment about"here" now everyone can see it"
Well you can't email me. You will just have to talk it out here.
I have a nasty habit of posting somewhat confusingly. To explain that some.. my brain does not work like a normal person.
To be more clear.. your post is not showing as edited by anyone other than the change Dbmod just made. Db.com does have an issue from time to time that post's get lost. You click submit and your computer just does nothing. When you close the window.. your post does not happen. This is most likely what got you.
That is why I was asking you to post it again. I don't see the post that answers my questions. I assume that you don't either.
As a side note.. Db.com has been thru some changes recently. There has been lots of editing of posts.. or even deleting some. Some people got banned.. and now have hurt feelings. I am good at picking emotions out in a post. I have been here long enough to kinda know where people will go in their postings. You don't come to DB.com seeking help.. and then not answer the questions. At the very least.. you would get irritated and question why I am asking all the questions. To me.. and only me.. there is something amiss here in your postings. I truly hope that I am wrong.. and that you do need help and you are reaching out for help. For me.. and me only.. I just don't see your heart. I am here to help you. I don't need to practice what I believe anymore. If that seems harsh.. or out of line.. I think I will get edited. That is a chance I am willing to take.
You have to show me.. that you can and are willing to do what is asked of you.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.