Good question db... I think I need to listen more. I'm to logical and not enough emotional. Always trying to reason, to fix. That HAS changed. I listen way more then I ever did in the past.

You nailed it on the push-pull. I HAVE been pushing. Now that I know more about what women need and I will put it into action. And when we are both pulling life will be beautiful. Gotta be patient though and that's difficult for me but I think I'm doing a good job.

I no longer want to be right! I want to be happy.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012