They said, "the person that cares the least has the most control." Truer words were never spoken.
Actually, MUCH truer words were spoken:
If you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world.--Emmett Fox
Now let's get even more real and more personal with some of Bill's:
Oh, and the comment about not tolerating an affair? I smell what you're smoking. But I've also been around these parts for a few years and can tell you that reality is not as simple as we think. Affairs can be survived and healed.
A lot of this is up to you.
and in reverse order:
Hard work. Are you up to it?
Now what do YOU think would bring more love into your marriage?