Hi Sad,

You have a strong pushmepullyou dynamic.

They said, "the person that cares the least has the most control." Truer words were never spoken.

Actually, MUCH truer words were spoken:

If you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world.--Emmett Fox

Now let's get even more real and more personal with some of Bill's:

Oh, and the comment about not tolerating an affair? I smell what you're smoking. But I've also been around these parts for a few years and can tell you that reality is not as simple as we think. Affairs can be survived and healed.



A lot of this is up to you.


and in reverse order:

Hard work. Are you up to it?



Now what do YOU think would bring more love into your marriage?


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