I can do this...

[irishblessings]

Punkin - you sound really good. Really strong. Good for you!

I was thinking today about what I would love to be able to say to an OW if I could...

OW,
I don't know who you are....but I know who you aren't:
You aren't the woman who vowed before God, family, and friends that you would love this man til death do you part
You aren't the woman who gave birth to his children
You aren't the woman who sat in the stands supporting him as a player and coach
You aren't the woman who gave up weekends working fundraisers for his teams
You aren't the woman who spent hours helping him catch up at work or organizing his office
You aren't the woman who cooked, cleaned, decorated, shopped, for him
You aren't the woman who maintained communication with family and friends
You aren't the woman who worked to be a partner
You aren't the woman who stood by him while he revealed his sexual deviant behaviors in counseling and went into recovery with him
You aren't the woman who remained faithful to him

I am

All I know about you is that
You are the woman who would sleep with a man before he was divorced


I am not the problem...and there is comfort in knowing that!