I think its over help pls

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Thanks Bill, that has been an undertone since this bomb dropped. As painful as it is i have been there for her as a friend long before we were a couple and as much as I hate this situation I still love her and I am occaisionally reminding her, but avoiding the manner of pursuing.
I can see her turmoil and it is in her behavior. She will not answer the question of If she wants a Divorce. I have given her the go ahead to do what she needs to do to get her place. She threw that back at me today by saying I have done nothing with bank accounts equally she had not discusssed it and she was suppossed to have prepared a seperation agreement for today she had 3-4 weeks to do so. To me her inaction speaks louder than words.
Perhaps or not the more she is in the house with the kids being Mom which she distanced herself from as well some sense will come to her might I add.....or not....

So I have told her many times I want her to be happy I wish it were with the family at home but i cannot stop you or change the way you feel so you go do what you need to do and you know where I am If you need any thing.

I think that says you are free to go but we want you here and I am still here for you, that IS my meaning behind it.

I maybe wrong but I can only imagine that she has the thought of why on earth is he staying here for me after what I did. EA/PA not with a stranger. I imagine alot of the behavior is guilt and so on.

This is getting to long. Thoughts from anyone on continuing a DB technique or anything would be great.

Thanks