re: education. I am almost finished and offered to take leave, she insisted I not. It is almost a moot point as I will be done in the spring and am looking for jobs for now and next year.
I cannot outearn her though. She has a very high paying job; it was why I left my last position and why we moved last summer right before the EA/PA. In time that may change and she may want to eventually make career decisions that lower her income for more professional fulfillment, but not immediately.
