Hi cub,

Welcome to divorcebusting.com. You have been through the ringer.

I'm wondering why you exposed the affair to her family?

And why have you chosen the 180's that you picked? What are her specific complaints.

You still may be able to save this and we are here to support you.

btw--if she wants to decorate the Christmas tree together--go for it. Anything loving, fun, friendly--don't give it a second thought.

dbmod