Grocerykartman, thanks for that feedback. I understand what you mean about being too apologetic and I guess I have gone from one extreme to the other. I admit that I was rather controlling and angry for quite awhile with my W so now I have gone to the opposite end of the spectrum. I was afraid I was reading too much into the cordial exchange but I was very proud of myself for not getting angry – my kind of 180. If something like this happens again I will only ask once and if I get no answer I will let it go since I am realizing that me asking multiple times is too needy and she probably views it as pursuing behavior.
