This is my 1st post--because this OP is my story--change a few dates and this is where i am at.
@sbh--hang in there! I have been giving W as much space as possible, going to the office more playing golf, doing stuff with the kids as much as possible. Reading DR, getting help from some friends that have been really supportive. The M will end up where it ends up, just take care of yourself and you part of the M and she will (hopefully) wake up, relax you have time.
me and W have been doing group counseling--imho getting us nowhere. She vents-i am sick of the complaining---trying individual sessions with different therapists. I have an appt with a new one next week. If i can figure out this board I will check back in.
