I feel so sick. Why did he have to call and say he's ready to work out a payment agreement today of all days? He's going to be livid when he gets the court paperwork.
I wish I'd listened to my instincts and not filed the court papers at all.
Mystik, I want you to know something. The ONLY chance you have of fixing this M is to find your power and claim it. Your H doesn't respect you right now and is treating you that way. You have be able to be an equal in any R. Your instincts are off right now. You did the right thing.
Also, I find it very curious that the paperwork shows up today and, BAM, he is calling you to "resolve" this. Don't talk to him about it. He is trying to manipulate you into something that will only benefit him. That is evidenced by he statement about "disagreeing" on the amount. I have no doubt he got the papers and he has begun to try to what he alawys does...manipulate you into doing what he wants.
Don't let him. You are stronger now. Talk to your L. Let him handle this. You already tried talking to H and it didn't work. You did what you had to do. Be Strong! Talk to your therapy team tomorrow. Don't talk to your H again about the money until you retain the L and talk to your therapist.
