Okay, first off, your W is the one who ended it. She feels ashamed/embarrassed/mad/scared/etc. so she needs someone to blame those things on. Well you're the one right in front of her. Even though these are things that SHE feels and is causing, she will still find a way to blame you for everything.
First thing you need to do is to get your act together. Stop thinking about what she's doing or thinking. Start building up your own self-esteem. GAL. Talk to her like a roommate or a friend and not as your W.
Get a copy of DR and it'll have a list of things to do.
Get out of her sights for awhile. That way she can stop blaming you and start looking at herself for having messed up her own life.
Remember it's not about you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
