I don't think I would go there yet, unless that's where she leads. In time, sure, you will have to decide what you need to rebuild your trust in her. Right now, my gut says it would be counterproductive.
Right now I kind of think of her as a scared little animal that is curious, and coming towards you. You don't want to send her skittering off.
I should probably let you know... I've been on the boards for four years, though I recently had to recreate myself. So I have followed a lot of folks through this. I didn't "succeed" in the classic sense, but I think I was still a success. I know that I did what I could.
