I wish I could go to dinner with my W. She had told me that she was going to date and I should too since we know nothing else...we were each others first BF/GF and stayed together and got married. I guess I was in denial about her dating until yesterday when I found out for sure that she had gone on dates and has a BF now and I am pretty sure they are sexually involved. I've made a commitment to myself that I won’t date or have sexual relations with anybody else…is this a good idea? Will she see it as me just not listening to her once again? Or will my faithfulness to her be a good thing if I can get her to reconsider?
