Hi Zen, What an awesome post you put on Cat4554's thread! I am really
stunned when I see the women here post the way you do. I see how
long you have been going through your sitch and really see a woman
who is moving in a great direction for herself. I have been
reading some of your thread and I think you are doing really
well in your understanding of this IMHO. It is amazing the
strength the LBS has to have when they see what is happening
in their families and the steps they have to take for the
sanity of themselves and their kids. As horrible as our
situations are, it is great to be the LBS. I can't imagine
being the MLC'r and thank God that WE get the LBS part of the
journey.
WS
DITTO!!!! Your words helped me Zen....just keep rereading what you wrote to me. It is hard. God I thought this nightmare was going to be all over. I feel blessed that I have a job I love. Going to work actually makes me HAPPY !!! Plus I joined the YMCA and started working out. A lot of free time on my hands wasn't good for me. Heck, my shape isn't bad for a 56 year old but now it will only get better. Please focus on you and your daughter but you first, then it will follow naturally for your daughter.
