Thank you Mila. Im thinking that maybe I just never really knew my H. Or maybe I did and was just too trusting or in denial. But your right, I did have to trust him to give him and our marriage the best possible chance.
I have had so many people that know both of us, more from his friends that have told me that they have told him that he needs to really grow up. To quit acting stupid. That he had a really good wife. Sucks that he isnt listening.
BUT I think he has gotten the point that I dont want as much to do with him this week. I have never gone this long without him texting me to death. Maybe since he sees that I am not playing anymore, he isnt interested? I doubt that, Im sure given a few weeks he will be knocking at my door for something again. In 4 years it has never gone for more than 2 weeks without him wanting something from me.
Thank you for the quote you are right!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10