Shoot, I jumped the gun just a few minutes ago. Sent a similar text and I have no expectation of a response. She saw me in person a few weeks ago for tens minutes when I asked to see the dogs and that was the last face-to-face we’ve had since the beginning of Oct. I don’t know how she can see my changes through actions when I am out on the road for weeks at a time by myself. I have been going dark for weeks and weeks at a time.
After I hit the road again at the beginning of Oct. I asked to see the dogs because it had been a month, asked about a financial matter for our mortgage, and then asked to visit while I was home now…….very, very little contact of any kind and whenever I talk to her at all it is just ends up being, “do you want to sell the house?”, “I want to move when I have the money”, “I want a divorce”, etc. from her. I know texting isn’t personal but she won’t pick up the phone if I try to call (which I stopped doing long ago) and when I visit the pets she tells me when I can come over after she’s left the house and I have to let her know when I’ve left so she can return.
