In their mind EVERYTHING you do is an attack. Even being nice and acomidating. All you can do is your best and detach from her as much as you can.
For now, your role in her fantasy play is that of evil villan. She needs that to justify her behavior. Try your best to stay off the stage.
They say you can't "guilt" her into coming back or coming to her senses. I find that difficult to fathom, but I guess that's where she is.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
