Need some advice. When I discovered my W was having an A I was so distraught with it that I sought the advice of family and close friends. At the time it felt good to talk about it as it kept me sane. Well now it is out in open and she's saying she doesn't think there is a way to work things out now that everybody knows. I didn't get into that conversation with her and just reiterated our marriage counseling session tomorrow and let's take it from there. Looking back maybe I could have handled things differenty but like I said it kept me sane when I felt I needed it the most. Has anyone one else experienced this and how do you think I should approach this situation?
M36 W39 D6 S4 Married 10 years EA began 7/10 Bomb Dropped 8/6/10 Filed for D 10/6/10 Divorce put on hold 12/10 Currently Piecing