Thanks for your responses, desert rat and Atossup.
I copied this from my original thread; it came from rockedHERworld:
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I would hate to see you hurt again, and worse, because you are so focused on her pain and your failings that you go too soft and easy on her. That wouldn't be good for either of you.
I believe that he is referring to negotiating terms. Others have also warned that I will need access to her phone records and emails to verify that OM is no longer in her life. Should this be part of the conversation or is that for another day?
