Good advice,listen,listen.No heavy stuff, leave that for MC. I started by listening and validating her feelings and trying like hell not to be pushy. As the Co told me I had to keep the race horse "me" at the gate and let her lead. We have been back together for 4 to 5 weeks now. She gave me a key to her apt and we are getting along great. She dumped om, as a matter of fact her GF thought he was a dumbass. Her family is glad we are back together. No talk of her moving back in yet.
Your job is to rebuild that connection between you. The friendship is there, now the passion needs to return.