Maybe the last weekend with OM was her effort to end the affair. Maybe she was dumped by OM. Who knows?
but imagine what she would be feeling if she left to meet OM and she knew you knew it and you did not say anything? a woman wouldn't feel loved by her man if he stood by and let her do something harmful to herself without standing up for her. you are fighting for your marriage when state a very clear boundary in this regard. that is a change that attracts a woman back-Step 2. As her husband you called her out on disrespectful behavior without being a jerk - attractive.
It takes confidence to state a boundary and to let her go. Confidence is very attractive to women.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
