Talk me out of it!

[DoneAfter10]

So, I didn't call the hotel!! Yay, me! But, I did something else--had small R talk with WAH last night! It wasn't bad and I didn't mope or cry or beg or anything like that at all. I just brought it up--which I didn't plan on doing at all. He just talked about the apartment he is getting and he wasn't wearing his wedding ring anymore (said it fell off and he put it on his key ring so he wouldn't lose it and hadn't thought to put it back on--he hasn't taken that ring off in 10 years). I think I got overwhelmed with it all. I just asked him if he was sure he wanted to go ahead and get an apartment. Sd he had to do it sometime. Then asked him if he had any change of thoughts on the D. He said no. So, I just said "okay." I then asked if he had any contact with OW. He again said no, but of course who knows if that's true. Said he still cares for her. I just listened to him and told him "okay." Then we just carried on talking about his new business and things he needs for his apartment. He is more open to me now and is more talkative in the past several days. It's more to the friendship level it seems now. Which is better than it was even a week ago. Did I totally screw up here? I know I shouldn't have asked or said anything, but this is my first backslide since starting the DB. He also talked to a man this morning from a workshop I'm trying to get him to attend. I was surprised he talked to him, but he hasn't agreed to go. He told the guy he was leaning more toward not going. So, I'm not sure he will go, but I'm praying that he will.