Maybe the last weekend with OM was her effort to end the affair. Maybe she was dumped by OM. Who knows?
Throughout the DBing process, she kept telling me how much she missed me. The moment I stopped pursuing, she got interested. The message one sends is clear: "I'll be fine without you." "My happiness doesn't depend on you." After faking it for a month, I actually started feeling that way.
I'm not sure that I have as much patience as other members, but my life isn't complicated by children either. I can't imagine the difficulties others have overcome. We are all so lucky to have found this place.
