Wow, family is the worst to talk to about this stuff. I now fully understand why you shouldn’t get them involved because of the biased shoulder issue. My mother has the best of intentions and decides to tell me all the hurtful things my W already has and that I need to just accept it because my W has moved on and I shouldn’t keep myself in limbo. It’s like telling a war vet or POW “just get on with your life and forget everything that happened to you.”
