Kissak, Just remind yourself that he is not worth your time right now. Life is too short. It sounded like you handled the contact very well. To me, things always seem so much worse during the Holidays.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
