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My ex MIL called me last night to update
I felt so bad for her
she has major medical issues and xh continues to have no contact with her
she said ow mother called her to see if she had heard anything from them
she had not
ow mom told her she also asked them to leave some time ago as the drinking and drug use
was too heavy
so this is where the story goes..full blown addiction and that has its own life and consequenses
I felt bad for my xh as he was a recovering alcoholic for 20plus years..he was sober when I met him ,so I never saw him drink
I tend to think many a mlcer gets pulled into an addictive lifestyleand loses the ability to choose
the addiction takes over
it is a disease
Im sorry xh went back to that lifestyle but im glad he left choosing to Not take us down the path with him
it would have been harder and more confusing
peace