You know I'm excited for me also!!

I feel about 21 again, my confidence, by drive, my attitude, everything, I feel like I've had a massive weight took off my shoulders!!

But here is a question, what do I do at Xmas?

It's her birthday near the time also, do I get her a present, or just leave it?

I know she is my wife, and I love her, but do I look pushy if I buy her something, then she gets me nothing??

I don't want to ask her about it, but I feel it would be better and a total change to me if I got her nothing, not out of spite, but I have moved on!

I used to be lavish with gifts for her, maybe trying to buy her love?, but I don't need it?

Any thoughts guys