Fix me, fix my life, win back my wife

[ScaredinCanada]

Scared,

I love your attitude right now. I believe if you keep this up in about two weeks, you will notice a small positive change in her. I want you to be able to recognize it, so that you build on it.

What would be the FIRST sign that things were beginning to improve? What would she be doing?

Thanks Dbmod, I'm trying. It's difficult, but getting easier everyday. I thought I was seeing positive changes last week, but things she's said and her actions (or lack of actions show otherwise). Song last night on radio (country song of course) of guy saying he was going to make this woman love him...my W comments "kids this song is for dad". Whatever.

Honestly her even asking me how my day was, or saying something remotely nice. I just feel like she is avoiding it, she seems to go out of her way to not be nice to me.

Last night right after dinner (just before we went to swimming) my W says to my 2nd daughter, "Don't you want to ask me about my day today?" to which my D just said "Nope, and walked away". So I take the oppertunity to simply ask her, "Did you have a good day today?" - and she simply acted like she didn't even hear me.

I'm not even trying anymore, unless she asks me a question or talks to me I'm not even going to acknowledge her existance.

I used to call her from work a few times a week just to check in at home - not anymore.