Sue,Peter, I know you are right.I, like everyone else,am looking for that certain thing to knock down the wall she has built.It's in gods hands. iknow she'll be back.i just hope,i'll have all the nessesary tools to make things better for all.I really don't know how you women do it.the kids are really demanding.no wonder you don't need us guys hasseling you.Is there any way of adding an extra six hours to the day?Thanx and peace