My brother-in-law called me to tell me he finally spoke to my H and my H said he is done. Marriage is not for him he gave it a try and wants to be free. Doesn't mind being a part-time dad. Said he loves me but would only stay in the marriage if we had an open marriage where he could see other people.... WHAT? I don't even know what to do now - he really doesn't love us or me. Told his brother he should have never gotten married. His brother told him he will grow up old and he said he didnt care --- I haven't gotten the book but I think my situation is over - how do you convince someone to be married who didnt want to be married at all.
