You may have overstretched the definition of abuse. And that wouldn't be the right focus, nor is encouraging Mystik to divorce her husband. It isn't what she wants, and it isn't what we do here at divorcebusting.com. We work to SAVE marriages, and help people get and give more love in their relationships. If they don't work out, then we support them emotionally, help detect solutions for moving on with their lives.
I understand your experiences make you feel strongly about her situation, you may feel you have so many similarities, but no two relationships are the same. You only live in your own situation. We only see one side of her relationship.
We need to support Mystik in her goal even if we think her H is a jerk.
