I'm SO sorry that H seems to have gone back into the tunnel again! Do you have any idea if he has been around MIL again? Is it possible that he is in a funk about his job prospects? I'm not saying that excuses his thoughtless behavior, but I do remember that you saying awhile ago that H said he might need to make a decision to look for work in another city if he couldn't find work by the beginning of January 2011. If he does that, how would that affect his R with OW?
............I'm just brainstorming to think of possible reasons for H's behavior.
Please take care of yourself and get better. Do something nice for yourself, OK? Give yourself the space that you need to heal mentally and physically right now.
