I *totally* agree with Sandy. He manages to find one way or another to keep you engaged and connected to him. And it's usually him trying to find faults in everything you do. That's emotional and verbal abuse. You have to start pushing back and I wish you'd said something about the d*ck pics- now that would've been awesome!
Yay on losing 10lbs! 1.5lbs per week is pretty good!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again