I *totally* agree with Sandy. He manages to find one way or another to keep you engaged and connected to him. And it's usually him trying to find faults in everything you do. That's emotional and verbal abuse. You have to start pushing back and I wish you'd said something about the d*ck pics- now that would've been awesome! smile

Yay on losing 10lbs! 1.5lbs per week is pretty good!


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again