The lying, cheating, WAW has had all week. My patience is wearing thin. She's still coming around and calling all the time, but there's no more talk of making an appointment with MC or "dating me" any more. With my new boundaries in place, she would have to give up OM for that. So...I've become my wife's best friend, again.
Time to make some changes! I bought a new truck today. The WAW was probably feeling pretty safe with me driving around in my old junker (not exactly a chick magnet). I also ordered some more books from our joint Amazon account. I know she snoops my book orders; she's asked me about certain titles from past orders. Here's my list of recently purchased books:
"She Comes First: the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman."
"I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide."
"Squirms, Screams, & Squirts: Going From Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex."
This should give her something to think about. Now what? Do I go dark? Dim? Or have I already gone too far?
This appears to be reactive, and from your last posts she does not appear to be lying and cheating. A lack of patience is not a good reason to react. You have not posted enough for us to really know how seeing the the books will affect her.
Is your goal still to win her back?
btw--a good 180 is not just the opposite of what you would normally do. It's the oppositive of what her complaints are about you.
