Hi Cub,
Definitely reasons to still be hopeful. However, I am fairly new here too so I will wait for the 'experts' to chime in.

If you move your post to Newcomers, you will likely get some great advice.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."