Hope it's not too late

[sandi2]

You said you are a former WAW. Did you reconcile? How did you end up on this board? You found it yourself or your husband referred you to it?

Well, to show you how nutty a WAW can be.......I did find this website by search for somebody to talk with about my stitch. I was having an on-line EA. I was in terrible shape mentally and physcially. I'm not sure which was the worst but neither was getting better.

I was into the chatting thing. Obviously that is how I met OM. But anyway....I knew things were going to get bad really quick. One night I was needing somebody to help me so badly and I went to search the web for......are you ready for this......a Christian chat board! Yep! And, I found one. But they were goofing off and I was getting really upset with them and told them just what I thought about their Christian chatroom. One of them had enough sense to realize a crazy woman was on line and needed help, and tried to talk a little bit....but the advise was totally flat and I left searching again. I was looking for something under M, I think, when this website came up.

Well with me being "me",I jumped right in and started a thread. I didn't hold anything back and neither did the folks who posted to me. (lol) But they really gave the tough stuff that I needed. And....I would tell them to keep laying it on me b/c I could take it. So they did!

Yes, my M reconciled. But it probably took close to two years to get where we are today. I guess I fall into an odd catagory b/c I was the WAW who was in an EA who was seeking help. However, I did not want my H helping me with ANYTHING! I was a rebell, and every WAW is.

My M is a success and I give this board credit for a big, big part of it. I am here righ now talking to you b/c I want to help somebody the way I was helped. Paying it forward,so to speak.