Question for the board -- those of you who had sex after splitting w/ your spouses - what was sex like the first time? Was it lonely? Did it feel weird? Was it great?
I was monogamous with stbxh for 16 years. I expected the first time with someone new to be weird and strange. It was with current boyfriend Guitarist on our 3rd date. It was wonderful. Surprisingly, afterwards he was very affectionate and I felt totally peaceful. I didn't expect that. It really helped that by then we had already established a good connection conversationally and that we knew the sparks could fly between us (making out like crazy teenagers on our second date).
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
