In the process

[flowmom]

I called stbxh sweetie once recently. oops! I don't know if he caught it. yes a lot of weirdness while creating a new status quo. It will feel normal one day I guess.

What I've done about xmas is really let go of all the duty stuff. It's a busy time for work and social stuff and I have decided that I don't need to sent out cards or presents that people don't expect. I stick to the fun stuff and creating memories for my kids.