I just can't over how can he say he loves me then is looking for a long term relationship.
My H told me 2 weeks ago that he loves me (that was the first time he has said I love you since the bomb dropped July 3rd) and he is STILL in an emotional/physical relationship with the OW.
They are confused, depressed and looking for themselves. They are insane. period.
I really do think my H loves me. but he needs to figure out how to "fix" himself and all of his issues that have nothing to do with me before he can even think of our R problems.
It sucks, really truly sucks. but it is what it is and there is NOTHING you can do about it. You are only in control of one thing - standing for your R or letting go and moving on. THAT IS YOUR CHOICE. and I have been told by some really good people on this site that I am the only one who will know when I am done. I chose to stand right now, but I guess I will know when I am done. Hopefully, I can outlast the MLC...but if I can't, I am okay with that too. It will be okay.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
