Doing 180, but Husband still researched D

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Hi, I'm new to the board & need some clarity on my 180.
Last week my H & I got into a heated talk, I pushed & told him that it seems he's not happy, that maybe we should look into a D.
I know, bad idea, but that was before I found out about DB.
H agreed & said he wants a D, that he has for some time.
Needless to say I was very upset, but for some reason I didn't fight him about a D.
That day I searched online & found this site, bought DB & DR.
I've fully embraced GAL & I've never felt better in my life, I feel as if I'm in control of myself for the first time in years.

The issue at hand is that I have been doing the 180, taking the dog for long walks everyday when I wouldn't before, going to the gym, when I didn't before, going out to seek new friends from Meetups.com, I've literally turned myself around.
Every time I've gone out, H has asked me where I was going before I left.
In fact, Friday night, after he had been drinking, that he thought it was sexy that I had gone out earlier in the week & he had no idea what I was doing.
Usually when I get ready to go out & he asks where I'm going, I just say "out."
Well last night was the first time I said where I was going, which was Trivia Night at a local tavern.
I left & when I came home he was cold as ice to me, come to find out I saw on the computer history he had researched D on the Internet while I was gone.
I didn't say a word to him, but now I'm torn & worried that me going out is going to drive him to seek a divorce sooner than later.
Help!!