PLEASE HELP! I just got an email from my W about health insurance for 2011. We use the insurance through her work b/c rates are better. Anyways, she said I should start looking for insurance on my own for next year. I could stay on hers for a little while if I couldn't find something right now but I needed to start looking. She said we could talk about it later tonight.

My heart just dropped out of my chest. I thought things were going well, but I guess I was mistaken. She is still gung ho on D. So with the impending "talk" tonight, what do I say? Anything? Do I imply that I'm not done trying, or do I just say "ok" I'll start looking and leave it at that?

Today is not a good day. Please advise.


M:28
W:28
Together:13yrs
high school sweethearts
Married:2
currently filing
living separately