Help save my WAW

[NotReadyToQuit]

So a friend of mine gave me the DB book last night and I started reading it. So far, a lot of it is about how divorce is not good and how you usually don't feel any better afterwards. I agree with all of this, I don't think D is the answer and I definitely see life, for both of us, being much worse afterwards.

I know the DB book is for me, not my W, but all of this info is EXACTLY what I want her to know and think about. We haven't had any R talk since she dropped the bomb, so I'm extremely hesitant to bring anything up. Is there any possible way that I can get this info to her without her seeing it as pressure? Or do I just have to wait and HOPE that she comes around?