Hi there !

Thanks again for the reply.
It's funny. You and I seem to be on a similar path and similar timing.

Even though it's only been about a month I have started to initiate contact with her less and less. To tell you the truth it does make life much easier.
About the same time she has opened-up us all getting together more and more. In fact we have all done something together now each week for the last 4.

Something has come up that she wanted to do with the kids over Christmas during my time with them. I took the high road and told her that she can do the activity with them on her own. In turn she suggested that I join them.
At this point I kind of pushed back and said it was not out of the question but that I was concerned about the kid's (and mine) expectations after spending so much time together. I offered her the opportunity to speak her mind about it, to see how she feels.
Guess what.......... no response. wink

So I think I will pull back a bit.
To tell you the truth I am not missing her as much lately.

I am sorry to hear that your children are having such a tough time. Sadly it's the kids that suffer the most. Maybe there is someone professional that could help them out through these challenging times.

The more we focus on ourselves and our children the less our Xs effect us.


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