"Question for the board -- those of you who had sex after splitting w/ your spouses - what was sex like the first time? Was it lonely? Did it feel weird? Was it great?"
Since I had been with my ex for 27 years (although I had had my share of experiences prior to him) I worried what it would be like to be with someone else. And as the boyfriend I had at that time was 8 years older than my ex, with gray hair and a little bit of a belly, it was a change from my boyish super-fit ex. For the first few seconds I had a bit of a surreal "what AM I doing here" feeling - and then it was ALL good from there on out! He was SO great in bed and SUCH a lovely man!!!
