Unfortunately, I don't think there is any right answer. What does your gut tell you? IF you check the box that says that you don't agree that the marraige cannot be fixed...will they require marraige counseling? Does your H believe in that? Sometimes couseling does more harm than good....
I went thru this too and decided that counseling would do no good! H does not believe in counselors and I felt that would make him more determined...he filed in Feb 09 and is just now getting things going due to a new L taking over as his old L took on another job.
No matter what you check...if your H is determined to go thru with this D, it will happen no matter which one you choose. I am sorry if this isn't much help!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
