I'm afraid as far as DBusting goes on these forms.

I have to check off whether

A I do not oppose the entry of a divorce decree
or
B I oppose the entry of a divorce decree because and the only option I have on this if I check it off is because the M is not irretrievably broken. Because we have lived apart for 2 years so I can't choose that one.

I really need help on this one. Will it push H away if I oppose the D or will it show him that I'm willing to try to save this M.

Or do I go the other way and pick I do not oppose the entry of a divorce decree and just wait it out to see if he changes his mind and wants to work things out?

I'm really confused on this one everyone. Advice please.

I'm not giving up on the spousal or the child support.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08