I'm afraid as far as DBusting goes on these forms.

I have to check off whether

A I do not oppose the entry of a divorce decree
or
B I oppose the entry of a divorce decree because and the only option I have on this if I check it off is because the M is not irretrievably broken. Because we have lived apart for 2 years so I can't choose that one.

I really need help on this one. Will it push H away if I oppose the D or will it show him that I'm willing to try to save this M.

Or do I go the other way and pick I do not oppose the entry of a divorce decree and just wait it out to see if he changes his mind and wants to work things out?

I'm really confused on this one everyone. Advice please.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08