Then W talked about her and what she needs from IC. W said she needs to talk to IC to figure out what it is that is missing, what emotional need is not being filled, otherwise she will always be reaching out to someone else. I validated and said and if you figure that out, you need to communicate it to me and help me understand how to fill that need.
THIS sounds like the most positive thing I have read in a long time. I only get to dream of this conversation in my sitch. Your W is YEARS ahead of my H... I think your response was perfect. I hope she can truly follow through with this.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
