Hi Zen,
What an awesome post you put on Cat4554's thread! I am really

stunned when I see the women here post the way you do. I see how

long you have been going through your sitch and really see a woman

who is moving in a great direction for herself. I have been

reading some of your thread and I think you are doing really

well in your understanding of this IMHO. It is amazing the

strength the LBS has to have when they see what is happening

in their families and the steps they have to take for the

sanity of themselves and their kids. As horrible as our

situations are, it is great to be the LBS. I can't imagine

being the MLC'r and thank God that WE get the LBS part of the

journey.

WS